TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is." Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB". NO POINTING FINGERS A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?" The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticise your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong.Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you."
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war.We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. If we forgive others, others will ignore our mistake too.
CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS? A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please.""Oh, good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television."
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
NO OVERPOWERING Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character." It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
RIGHT SPEECH There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.
A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, "Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered, "You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you." Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship.
BE PATIENT This is a true story which happened in the States.
A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide.
Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or you wish to take revenge. Think first before you lose your patience with someone you love.Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognise the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
Pause and ponder. Think before you act. Be patient. Forgive & forget. Love one and all. If you judge people, you have no time to love them.
2) Nuffnang Ad. (running by the side above the polls)
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so please support my ads for the 2 seperate weeks ok?
i still haven gotten my first cashout yet by Nuffnang.
and i cant wait to get my first cashout.
=D
THANK YOU!!!
=)
as promised here are the videos of 2 cute little girls singing.
super cute.
Abba's Dancing Quen.
cute right? =D
The Lord's Prayer.
i just want to squeeze her cheeks!=X
oh yes. HAPPY MOTHERS' DAY !!!
to all mothers and mother-to-bes.
=)
today after service went to eat lunch.
at MOI LUM restaurant behind church.
they serve authentic cantonese cuisine.
(as proclaimed on their signboard)
its not bad, really.
their roasted chicken is faaaaaab!!
the skin is crispy & the meat was succulent and juicy.
*slurps*
i have pics but im lazy to load them up.
=X
anyway i have a questionnaire..
tagged by xue.
=)
(however its abit different becos i couldnt copy from your blog. so i found a similar one ok love? =D)
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To those i've tagged! =) copy & paste below!!
Questions:
1. What disappoints you the most?
Broken promises & Hurtful lies.
2. Where will you go if someone sponsors you a tour ticket?
Rome. =D
3. What's your favorite thing to do?
Spending time with the ones who can put a smile on my face. =)
4. Do you think money can buy happiness?
Sometimes. But it can never buy Love.
5. If you can have one dream to come true, what would it be?
Everyone around me to be healthy & filled with overflowing love & happiness.
6. Do you believe you can survive without money?
No. We live in a money-minded world.
7. What's the most ridiculous thing that you've done before? -
Fell into the longkang (drain) while sms-ing and ripped a hole in my jeans. =X
8. If you win $1 million, what would you do?
Pay my 20k bond.
Give some to mommy to spend.
Get married & have children & be rich tai tai
Spend on ridiculous things that i want. =P
9. What is the most embarassing thing that happened to you recently?
I can't remember any right now.
10. List out 3 good points of the person who tagged you?
Friendly, Admirable and Strong. =)
11. What makes you happy?
When others are happy too.
12. What type of person do you hate the most?
x Insenstive Assholes. x Liars. x Hypocrites. x Jerks. x Arrogance. x Pretenders.
13. Where do you see yourself 10 years down the road?
Married to the one i love with our little rugby team. =D
14. If you could have a superpower, what would it be?
The ability to freeze and rewind/forward time.
15. What do you think is the most important thing in your life?
God. BF. Mommy. Family.
16. What do you do when you're alone?
SLEEP!!! *oink!*
17. If you have a chance, which part of your character would you like to change?
My impatience, impulsiveness & stubbornness.
18. One word to describe yourself.
Genius.
19. What is your least favourite animal?
Snakes.
20. What is your ultimate addiction?
ALOISIUS! <3 (my happy happy love pill!) =)
OH! and anything that is baby soft pink!!
=D
Instructions: Remove 1 question from below, and add in your personal question, make it a total of 20 questions, then tag 8 people in your list, list them out at the end of this post. Notify them in their chat box that he/she has been tagged.
even an Englishman could not construct sentences using numeric,
which is exclusive only to Malaysians and Singaporeans.
v(^^,)v
(we are unique peeps LAH ok?)
xD
for the benefit of people who might not understand
i wrote the words down behind the numbers in brackets.
(i'm so nice right)
=D
well anyway..
here's how the story goes :
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Ah Lek was asked to make a sentence using 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10.
Not only did he do it 1 to 10, he did it again from 10 back to 1.
This is what he came up with.....
1(one) day I go 2 (to) climb a 3(tree) outside a house to peep.
But the couple saw me, so I panic and 4 (fall) own.
The man rushed out and wanted to 5 (five) with me.
I ran until I fell 6 (six) and threw up.
So I go into 7-eleven (i think 7 eleven is pretty understood right?? =D)
and grabbed some 8 (eggs) to throw at him.
Then I took a 9 (knife) and try to stab at him.
10 (thank) God he run away.
10 (thank) I put the 9 (knife) back and pay for the 8 (eggs) and left 7-eleven.
Next day I called my boss and told him I was 6. (sick)
He said 5 , (fine) tomorrow also no need to come back 4 (for) work.
He also asked me to go climb a 3 (tree) and jump down.
I don't understand.
I am so nice 2 (to) him but I don't know what he 1. (want)
SO GUESS WHO THE BOSS IS??
=D
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as usual my pre-monday blues is starting.
its MONDAY tomorrow.
ROARS!!
which means 5 more days of work to endure before the weekend comes again.
=(
gonna be busy because our beloved honorable lecturer put us in such "nice schedules" for each week.
such as half the group will be having 3 afternoons & 2 mornings in one week.
and the alternate the next.
and so the weeks go.
do you know how shagged it will be having 3 mornings at one shot?? BUT.
having 3 afternoon at one shot is WORSE.
(which btw is my schedule for next week. ughhhh..)
1) i end at 9pm every night.
2) i cant see BF for 3 whole days. =( *sniffles*
I CANT WAIT FOR FRIGGING ATTACHMENT TO END!!!!!
(ok enough of whiningbitchingandmoaning)
=D
just a note that i wouldnt be blogging much till den.
=(
miss me ok?
xD
anyway my ads are gone.
(byebye) =(
i hope i earned quite abit.
(nuffnang hasn't updated my earnings for the rednano ad yet)
thank you to those who made the effort to click my ads. =)
hoped you guys enjoyed the lame joke i posted.
hahaha.
p.s thank you BF for your lovely breakfast today, you should cook for me more often!! hahaha. & i had a great day with you today. as i always do.. i love you so much. =)
p.p.s i have a cute video of a little 2 year old girl singing. super cute!! will post it up when i can ok??
stay tuned.. =)
paper roses. =) definitely nicer den the tissue paper ones i folded in macs the other time.
IT DOESNT MEAN THAT BEING STUDENT NURSES EVERYTHING THAT GOES WRONG ITS OUR DAMN F***ING FAULT.
Number 4.
i'm really really really tired.
Number 5
HAVING MY PERIOD IS MAKING THINGS WORSE!!! times 1290489012839013091283!!!!!!!!!!
Number 6.
i think babies & children are the most adorable cutest little MONSTERS!! and i cant wait to have one of my very own. =)
(utter random-ness. -.-) Number 7.
CHARLENE IS A ATTENTION SEEKING BIMBO (like bimbowati pornstar) THAT WANTS ME TO WRITE ABOUT HER ON MY BLOG. crazy woman. -.- i still love you no matter what ok?? =D
Number 8
i miss my boyfriend. and i cant see him till sunday. =(
Number 9
wth am i still blogging at this HOUR?? Number 10.
i just needed a place to rant.
=)
good night little people who actually bothers to read up abt my insignificant life.
(its really appreciated, really!)
=)
(even if sometimes its just endless ramblings like this one.) HAH!
i'll blog about something more interesting when it comes my way..
=D
p.s : today is the 03/04/08 which means it is officially the last day of my ad, the one high up in the banner at the top of my blog. PLEASE HELP ME EARN MONEY.. =D
you know what to do. ^^
thank yoooooooooooooooooooooooooooous!!
lots of love & appreciation.
=)
countdown to end of attachment : 6 frigging weeks to go.. W.T.H!!
Love is patient, Love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast,
It is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking,
It is not easily angered,
It keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil
But rejoices in the truth.
It always protects, always trusts,
Always hopes, always perserveres.
LOVE NEVER FAILS.