❤ Thursday, June 19, 2008
today i came across this forum.
about abortion.
i was so damn upset and angry okay.
until i cry over the phone to
BF.-.-
wth is wrong with me man.
what trigger me is that.
she is a year older den me & 5 months preggy.
and den she went for abortion just this monday.
she went through
"labour" as any ordinary 8/9 month preggy mama would do.
and
"gave birth" to a
BABY BOY.
Number 1 ; 5 months preggy and having an abortion is
SO WRONG! not to add its considered illegal to abort at 5 months already, right?
Number 2 ; i wondered if her heart hurt when giving birth to a baby who might have been alive in about 4 months if she hasn't chosen this route she has taken?
Number 3 ; i think its stupid to use
PARENTS as an excuse to have an abortion. i believe if you had chosen to keep the baby from the start,
NOBODY will ever make you do an abortion.
Number 4 ; at the end of the day we are still our parents children.
BLOOD IS THICKER. and no matter whatever you have done wrong eventually our parents will learn to accept and forgive us for our mistakes no matter what.
For those who are considering abortion, please please reconsider again. It's a life that we are talking about. If it is just a bag of cells, hello, weren't you once that way too? imagine someone out to murder you, let alone your mother, isn't it something very painful beyond words? End of the day, its really a choice, the choice is yours, not your parents, nor your SO. Once you made the decision, the act is irreversible. For those who worry about money, money can be made. For those who worry about angry parents, relationships can be mended. For those, worried about losing your BFs, is it worth being with a person who does not love your child? If a life is taken away, it will never come back again. Why not take the beating once and for all, rather than face the guilt and pain for the rest of your life.
-quoted from siangjiao at FP.and you know what?
i totally agree with it.
i know im nobody to judge to anyone who went through an abortion.
you may have your difficulties and such.
but
THE BABY IS INNOCENT!!and as i read on and on at the forum,
it upsets me even more that more ppl wants to go for an abortion.
=(
God created life.
and before he placed the baby in your tummy,
He already knew who he/she was.
"For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. i praise you because i am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, i know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when i was made in the secret place. When i was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be."
-psalm 139:13-17if you haven read read my long ago post abt abortion,
do you know..
PREBORN - 11 WEEKS AFTER CONCEPTION - HEART IS BEATING (SINCE 18-25 DAYS)
- BRAIN WAVES HAVE BEEN RECORDED AT 40 DAYS
- THE BABY SQUINTS, SWALLOWS, AND CAN MAKE A FIST
- THE BABY HAS FINGERPRINTS AND CAN KICK
- THE BABY IS SENSITIVE TO HEAT, TOUCH, LIGHT AND NOISE
- THE BABY SUCKS HIS OR HER THUMB
- ALL BODY SYSTEMS ARE WORKING
- THE BABY WEIGHS ABOUT 1 OUNCE AND IS 2 1/2 TO 3 INCHES LONG
- THE BABY COULD FIT COMFORTABLY IN THE PALM OF YOUR HAND
okay enough of this upsetting things.
its officially 2028 hours.
3 and a half hours and 2 mins to
MY birthday.
been looking forward to this day for a long while already.
and suddenly,
im not looking forward to tomorrow.
maybe becos tomorrow will be a start of the 18th year of my life.
and it means that i have grown a year older.
somehow i wish our age could be counted backwards instead of forward.
SELINA JIE LOOK HERE LOOK HERE!!thank you for my unagi on the 14/06/08 and the hello kitty cake lit with a single candle.
=)
*hugshugs*have all the pics.
will upload and post soon.
=D
Written with much love @
8:13 PM